We live afterall in 2014 and not in 1800. They did not accept my profile because of my " poor Dutch" as if to say all English profiles are fake. Yet there are Dutch free dating sites where moderators respect non Dutch people and no matter how many years you are subscribed, they do not delete your profile as long as you are behaving in a proper way. l used to be a paid member of Match4Me and they deleted my profile years later. What the use to have a dating site for highly educated people who are racists and nationalists.